Alright, seeing .. someone's [ geesh, forget your username already, soddies ] post below about guy troubles made me think of my own, and because you guys gave her such wonderful and plentiful advice -- I've decided to call on your wisdom myself.

Anyway, there's this guy .. here and now known as Bob [ because only two people know I <333 him, and I don't know .. spy's might be reading this right now. so he's Bob ]. Anyway, Bob. He's sexy and hot and whoa. And not only that, but he's got like .. -the- best personality, ever. He's funny as eskimo chopsticks, and a huge sweetheart. And whoa, anyway, as you can probobly tell I'm head over heals in loveee -- anyway I've only actually met him like, once or something. 'Cause my mom's friend is his mom, and my mom had a party and his mom came, and brought him and his sister [ who's annoying as hell, never be her friend. gah. ]. Anyhow, I'll admit that I shamelessly flirted all night with him, and enjoyed every second of it. I sat on his lap, had a little pillow fight with him, talked about stuff, laughed, etc. etc. AND he slept over my house [ o lalala, no actually his mom was just too drunk to drive home, ;D ]. But that's besides the actual point.

Anywho, he [ as in Bob ] told this guy .. forever known as Frank, that he -- Bob -- thought I was hot. [ he's got good tastes. Lmao, just kidding. ]. BUT he said he was going to ask this one girl out on Monday, when he was talking to me and my sister, Ali [ real name, she's not important, ]. And he's a whole grade [ okay so i'ts not that much, he's just like a year and a half older or so, not even. ] ahead of me, which mean's he's in a totally different school. And so it's not like I see him daily or anything. Except in my dreams, and I'm totally tortured by his existence in those and my thoughts and such.

So basically what I've been trying to get across in this hugely long and possibly unnecessary message, is that I am SO in love with this guy, Bob, and like .. I need him, I want him, that whole thing. But I don't know. I think he likes me too, but I don't know if he asked that girl out or anything, and I don't even know if he was just flirting because he's a huge flirt, or if he was flirting because he like(s/d) me. So what I'm wondering is, what's your advice for my situation? Forget about him, forget about him till next year, when I'm in highschool with him, or just get in touch with him some how and MAKE things work, or something else because your much smarter than me and I don't know all the endless possibilites, LoL.

Anyway thanks in advanced, and I'll stop my rambiling now to go dream about him .. Bob. <3

well, since you seem younger, i will amend my other advice...just ask him out...if you could just go up and sit on his lap "hey, you wanna see a movie this friday?" shouldn't be so bad

rawr, guy problems.. i had some of my own guy problems.. double rawr. anyways back to the point, lol, the way you type reminds me ALOT of the way me n my friends type..... in no way retarded i swear [ ] but anyway, u seem cool. so i'll dish out the advice as if you were another one of my chums, okay? okay. it seems kind of sketchy that your "in love" with some dude you've met once.. you sure it wasn't just some little fling? i mean, get to know the guy first! if you yourself don't even know if he's a flirty type of guy or a seirous relation commitement type of person that should prove that you don't know too much bout him at all.. for all u know he's a druggie/stoner/jackbutt retard..... so i would say check out the 411 on the guy first, if ur still "in love" then make sure hes not "in love" with that other girl, if not, go get your steamy spicy enchilada! lol

Love is one of those STRONG words that should not be used so freely ...
I am old .. well feelin' it anyway and I have never been in love ... thought I was once but naaa so use the word sparingly girl!

Good luck ... it is too early for me to be given guy advice ...